Normal but meaningfuL

Hi, toD@y is my 5th dAy in the hospit@L but guess how LaME am I, none of my frens came to visit me. FYI, this is my 3rd been hospitalised but to my suprise still none of my frens came. This incident t@ught me a lesson, no matter how long u have know each other(even 1, 2 or 5 years) it doesnt matter,if they r not a true fren mean they r not. 

Maybe some of you might think, cheh hospitalised onli ma, what’s the big deal. But that’s not the point, the point is whether u got the heart or not. OR should I assumed, this is my 3rd time been hospitalised so not a new thing anyway and all my frens think it’s ok, there’s no need to visit her/him. But they are wrong, you guys might not be aware, when a person is sick, he/she hopes someone or her/his frens to care for him/her. Not to say MUST visit her/him in the hospital but it’s very common set of mind when your fren is hospitalised, you will think ‘ Oh, what happened? Are you OK now? Which hospital are you in? ‘ But to my suprised and disbelief, when i told them that i am in the hospital now, their response is just ‘OK’ and tat’s it.      

But if they think this is not a new thg since this is the 3rd time, then what about the 1st time i was hospitalised. Even a netfren worried me more than them. Maybe some will said,’Nah, you nvr tell me or i didnt know’, guess it’s doesnt make any diff whether they knew it or not coz they will still like’ Oh! ok. Get well soon’. More than 3 years friendship and how close you are during school or college time, is all BULL SHIT. BULL SHIT!!! 

Making the situation worse, some of my frens said it’s my own fault. I’m speechless. I learned quite alot of lesson from this incident. To my other suprise, a fren that i onli know not more than 6 months, came everyday. I’m so touch, althou she said becoz it’s on her off day so she’s free but some might not got that heart to come everyday to the hospital jez to company me or jez to cheer me up.

How long you have been knowing each other or how close you were when having fun is not true fren but when you are in trouble or sick, the one that care for you and lend you a hand is a TRUE freN. I’m lucky that i got to know her. Now if she want me to ‘up knife hill, down oil wok’ , i will definitely help her.

I WANT TO THANK EVERY1 TAT HV CALLED & Especially that CAME TO VISIT ME!!! 

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